“Love is test and it isn’t easy, We Labor in love to rest, we have to fight in love to be together, Love is alien, Marrying someone is the Destination goal of loving someone, we should be weak to become strong in love” that’s what I used to think before you entered. You made me realize that “Loving isn’t exam rather life is. Loving is tough when it’s fake” “Loving is more than I Love Yous” “Loving is when we have fights and we are happy about them, when our mental health is fine”. “Love isn’t alien, it is colorful.
It can happen with anything, anyone and anytime. “Loving helps you discover yourself” . People came, sit and went away but TRUST ME, YOU ARE MY HAPPY PHASE. I include you in my “Self love”🥀
THIS IS NOT FOR ALL MEN AND NOT ALL MEN ARE SAME.I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THAT A LOT OF MEN ARE REALLY GOOD.I WROTE THIS BECAUSE I HAVE SEEN PEOPLE NORMALIZING “MARITAL RAPE” AND A HUGE PART OF OUR SOCIETY DO NOT EVEN COUNT IT AS RAPE.
WE’RE TAUGHT FROM CHILDHOOD
“OUR BODY IS OUR HOME”
THEN HOW COULD HE TREAT ME LIKE I AM HIS FOOD.
REMEMBER ,”YOUR BODY IS ONLY YOURS THAT NOBODY CAN JUST NEFARIOUSLY OWN”.
SEX IS CRINGY,
DRAGGING INTO CONVERSATION AMONG FAMILY,RELATIVES AND SOMETIME FRIENDS IS STILL EMBARRASSING.
BUT WHEN I GET RAPED,
WILL NOT YOU CALL MY BODY MY HOME?WILL NOT YOU SAY THAT HOW COULD HE ENTER MY SOUL?
PLEASE TELL ME “WHAT WAS MY FAULT”?
MOST OF US ARE TAUGHT DO NOT EVEN THINK TO HAVE SEX WITH ANYONE BEFORE MARRIAGE BECAUSE YOU KNOW “OUR BODY IS OUR HOME”
BY ANY CHANCE I DO,
THEN IS NOT HIS BODY IS HIS HOME?
I AM RAPED.REPEAT AFTER ME “I AM RAPED”.
THEY ASKED “WHO DID THIS”?
“THE BOY YOU ARRANGED ME FOR,MY HUSBAND, I REPLIED IN PAIN.
NO,THERE IS NO SUCH THING.YOU ARE HIS WIFE.YOU ARE MADE FOR HIM ,HE IS MADE FOR YOU.IT IS A PERSONAL MATTER.OMG THEY SAID THIS AND LEFT ME ALONE.
PLEASE TELL ME THAT WHO WILL BREAK THIS CHAIN.
IF NOT ME THEN WHO?
IF NOT YOU THEN WHO?
IF NOT US THEN WHO?
MY FAULT WAS I MARRIED TO A GUY YOU ARRANGED ME FOR.
MY FAULT WAS I MARRIED BECAUSE HE IS THE ONE I LOVED?
MY FAULT WAS I DID NOT MARRY TO THAT BOY SOCIETY WANTED ME TO?
MY FAULT WAS I MARRIED TO THE BOY I MET IN COLLEGE AND FOUGHT WITH FAMILY TO BE WITH HIM?
LOVE MARRIAGE WAS MY FAULT? ARRANGE MARRIAGE WAS MY FAULT?